Many a times we don't even realize how much people do for us. We get to know only after it's consequences, the results for our better. At every stage of our life, there exists someone who constantly remain with us, stand with us through the ups and downs and morally provide us that support which we tend to think that it was there from the very beginning. But we forget or say don't realize that if they weren't there then, life all together would have been totally different. The person can be any, be it our parents, sibling, lover, friend, teacher, guru or even an acquaintance. The feeling we acknowledge of that someone going out of the way to do something for us is one of the rarest and the most precious which one could feel in his lifetime. The relationships built on the foundation of expectation usually end up to faith. That faith is what makes that someone support us throughout.
And then there are times when we don't even get to know what a person did to us. We get to know only after it's consequences, the results for our bad. The scenario stands just the opposite to what the person did for our good. We don't apprehend what effect this all could make to our life. Be it a direct effect or an indirect. Our behavior with one is certainly effected because of our good or bad experience with another. Every thing has a consequence in this world. It is because everything happens for a reason. Bad happens because we tend to loose faith in having faith.
If we come across a difficult person, it is because he has been sent to teach us patience and acceptance. If we come across person who teaches us to fall in love, care, support it is because he has been sent to make us feel a complete human being. I believe, without love a person is never complete. A person who has never fallen in love or either has never been loved by someone, he is incomplete. An incomplete Soul. The super power above there, the God, has definitely sent our soul mates down here. Its just that few reach to them and others compromise. We must have faith in our choice and we'll succeed.
Every action of ours either benefits us or brings us no joy. We all come across such stage in life where we react in an unexpected manner. Be it just to withdraw our self from the crowd or to be the light of the crowd. Or may be even because things don't turn up the way we want. This is where we fall. This is where we start to loose hope. This is where we are being tested by God. One needs to be calm, be intelligently subtle and just have faith in oneself to succeed all odds.